She's Gotta Have It 1986

The film opens with a thought-provoking prologue that explores the complexities of desire and memory, quoting the poignant words of Zora Neale Hurston:

“Ships at a distance have every man’s wish on board. For some they come in with the tide. For others they sail forever on the horizon, never out of sight, never landing until the watcher turns his eyes away in resignation…”

Set against the vibrant backdrop of Brooklyn, New York, the story follows the life of graphic artist Nola Darling (Tracy Camilla Johns), who believes in embracing her freedom by maintaining multiple romantic relationships. She shares an intimate moment with her boyfriend Jamie Overstreet (Tommy Redmond Hicks), surrounded by flickering candles, embodying the passion of their connection. However, this arrangement disrupts her living situation, as her former roommate Clorinda Bradford (Joie Lee) moves out, uncomfortable with Nola’s many lovers lurking around their shared bathroom.

Nola finds herself wrestling with her disdain for common pick-up artists, whom she deems “dogs.” Her attraction lies firmly with Jamie, whose charm draws her in. Among her other suitors is Mars Blackmon (Spike Lee), a bicycle messenger who appears intrigued by Nola’s world but falls short of winning her heart when he suggests they should cohabit. Meanwhile, Jamie is aware of Nola’s other relationships, particularly her bond with Opal Gilstrap (Raye Dowell), a lesbian friend whom Jamie believes threatens their love. Yet, Nola reassures Jamie that Opal’s affections are platonic.

The dynamics shift when Greer Childs (John Terrell), another of Nola’s lovers, stakes his claim by proclaiming he has transformed her into a “sophisticated lady.” While they dine together, Greer boasts of his superiority over Nola’s other partners and even proposes marriage, which she promptly dismisses in favor of their physical relationship. Nola’s father, Sonny Darling (Bill Lee), observes her struggle to commit, reflecting on her childhood as an only child filled with diverse interests that never quite solidified.

Nola’s birthday is marked by a heartfelt surprise from Jamie, who decorates a monument and hires dancers to celebrate her. However, when Mars calls to wish her well, Nola’s lack of enthusiasm about seeing him raises tensions. Conflicted by her attraction to both Jamie and Mars, she remains non-committal, much to Jamie’s frustration.

The escalating pressure leads Jamie to seek exclusivity, pushing Nola towards a decision. Greer’s accusations of her being a sex addict lead her to a therapist, who assures her that her sexual nature is healthy. Thanksgiving dinner turns into a battleground as her three lovers confront one another, revealing their disdain for each other. As alliances shift and tempers flare, Nola finds herself drowning in confusion and despair after a nightmare, ultimately confronting Jamie about his new romantic pursuit.

As time goes on, Nola’s relationships begin to fray. When she decides to cut ties with Greer and express interest in a more committed relationship with Jamie, she realizes that he seeks a conventional partner. The struggle between desire and expectation leaves Nola reflecting on her identity. In the end, she acknowledges her truth: she is not made for monogamy and accepts that she thrives in her independence. Surrounded by her candles once more, she surrenders to sleep, deepening her understanding of herself and her relationships.