The Keys to the House 2004

Paolo's Birth and Tragic Loss

Paolo is born, but the joy of his arrival is overshadowed by the heartbreaking loss of his mother during childbirth. Gianni is left to navigate the complexity of raising a son with disabilities while mourning the love he lost.

Gianni's Distance from Paolo

Since Paolo's birth, Gianni has placed him under the care of others, struggling with his emotions and the responsibility of parenting a handicapped child. This separation fuels Gianni's shame and grief as he attempts to cope with the challenges thrown his way.

Preparing for the First Meeting

As Paolo turns fifteen, arrangements are made for him to meet Gianni for the first time. The caretakers recommend that Gianni take Paolo to a Berlin hospital for annual check-ups, believing this meeting could provide therapeutic benefits for them both.

The Night Train

Gianni boards the night train where Paolo is already seated, filled with anticipation and anxiety. However, he is taken aback as Paolo seems indifferent, engrossed in his Game Boy, showcasing a lack of expectation for their encounter.

The Hospital Encounter

At the Berlin hospital, Gianni has an awkward encounter with Nicole, who recognizes him as Paolo's father. Despite the discomfort he feels about his son's disability, Gianni finds an unexpected connection with Nicole, who offers understanding and support.

Finding Common Ground with Nicole

Nicole, having dedicated her life to caring for her own daughter, shares valuable insights with Gianni. This conversation helps him confront his feelings of shame and guilt while allowing him to ponder the complexities of fatherhood.

Serendipitous Meetings

Gianni and Nicole's paths cross repeatedly, each encounter deepening their bond. They discuss their struggles and hopes, allowing Gianni to slowly begin to confront his fears about his relationship with Paolo.

The Impact of *Born Twice*

A book left behind by Nicole, titled *Born Twice*, serves as a catalyst for Gianni’s reflection. This title resonates with him and provides a framework for understanding the complexities of life and love in the face of adversity.

Gianni Confronts His Fears

Through his interactions with Nicole and Paolo, Gianni begins to confront his fears and reservations about being a father. This emotional journey pushes him to question his past decisions and the barriers he has built around himself.

Building the Father-Son Relationship

As the story progresses, Gianni makes strides in connecting with Paolo. He starts to understand his son's needs and unique perspective, allowing their first meeting to be a stepping stone toward a more meaningful relationship.

Accepting Responsibility

Gianni learns to accept the reality of Paolo’s condition and recognizes the importance of being present in his son’s life. This realization marks a significant shift in his approach to fatherhood and healing.