The Five-Year Engagement 2012

Tom's Proposal Plan

One year after meeting Violet, Tom Solomon plans a surprise engagement proposal. He chooses a picturesque staff patio at Birch, with a stunning view of San Francisco's Bay Bridge, to set the scene for his romantic gesture.

The Proposal Mishap

As Tom and Violet head to a New Year's Eve party, his excitement leads to an unexpected slip of the tongue. In a moment of frustration over their tardiness, Tom inadvertently reveals his plan to propose, resulting in a comedic yet memorable engagement.

Planning the Wedding

With their engagement secured, Tom and Violet embark on the journey of wedding planning. Violet takes charge, envisioning a beautiful wedding, but they soon realize that finding the ideal venue presents a daunting challenge.

Violet's Rejection

Violet faces disappointment when she is rejected from her dream academic position. This setback deeply affects her and puts additional stress on her relationship with Tom, as they grapple with the implications for their future together.

Michigan Opportunity

When Violet receives an offer from the University of Michigan, she is faced with a life-changing decision. Tom selflessly encourages her to pursue this opportunity, even if it means postponing their wedding plans.

Moving to Ann Arbor

Tom and Violet relocate to Ann Arbor for her new academic position. As Violet thrives in her studies, Tom must adapt to a new environment, leaving behind his aspirations in fine dining.

Tom's New Job

In Ann Arbor, Tom finds himself with plenty of free time and takes a job at Zingerman's Deli. Although it's a stark contrast to his previous work, he begins to form meaningful connections with his new colleagues.

Violet's Academic Success

Under the mentorship of Professor Winton, Violet blossoms in her academic career. She forges friendships with fellow graduate students, which enriches her experience but also deepens the distance between her and Tom.

Tom's New Interests

Influenced by his new social circle, Tom begins exploring hobbies outside of his culinary roots, including hunting. This shift highlights his efforts to adapt to life in Michigan while Violet pursues her dreams.

Alex's Promotion

Back in San Francisco, Tom's best friend Alex achieves the promotion that Tom had aspired to. His success adds another layer of complexity to Tom and Violet's parallel struggles in their respective careers.

The Growing Family

Alex marries Violet's quirky sister, Suzie, and they quickly start a family. Their rapid progression in life serves as a stark contrast to Tom and Violet's stalled wedding planning, intensifying their feelings of uncertainty.

Comedic Misadventures

Tom and Violet experience a series of comedic misadventures that thwart every attempt to finalize their wedding date. These moments bring humor to their journey but also force them to question their relationship's stability.

Self-Reflection

As they navigate the ups and downs of their engagement, Tom and Violet find themselves questioning whether they are truly meant to be together. The years of waiting and the challenges they face begin to weigh heavily on their hearts.